I used quite a lot of online sites that are dating the very last couple of years. Many of them draw. I discovered one that is really quite good and tries hard but I won’t mention them since We don’t think anyone ought to be with them.
They just made me personally miserable and depressed, for just about the reasons you mention above. I’d rather get some good feedback than an apathetic nothing.
With what discussion boards can you find some feedback that is useful?