It really is more and more common, and your boss might be fine with even it. But that doesn’t mean an office romance is not difficult.
Sarah, a 30-year-old designer that is graphic met Matt through a colleague in the imaging tech company where they both worked. “I didn’t really notice him to start with she says because he had a beard, and beards weren’t my thing. But they exchanged a couple of texts, then graduated to lunches that are friendly. Eventually Matt asked Sarah on a romantic date, and they talked for such a long time that the sushi restaurant had to kick them out. “We took things slowly that we worked in the same office,” she remembers because we were both very aware. Nevertheless the caution was worth every penny: 5 years after that date that is first he proposed.
A decade ago their romance would have already been expressly forbidden. (You understand the old saying about not, um, making in pretty bad shape for which you eat.) But as more americans marriage that is postpone their careers are establishedâ€”and as hours get longer, with smartphones blurring work and playâ€”it is reasonable that attitudes are changing. “Older generations saw work as a place that is separate” says Renee Cowan, Ph.D., an assistant professor during the University of Texas at San Antonio who studies office relationships. “Nowadays work and life have become integrated.” For the reason that light, these stats aren’t surprising: 37 percent of men and women have dated a coworker, in accordance with a 2015 survey by CareerBuilder, and 30 percent of those relationships ended in marriage (proving that an office romance just isn’t always an emergency).