Another aspect for this “going after”/“pursuing” company is the fact buddies liking the exact same girl and wanting to do it on top of that is positively not a problem.
In Western tradition, this could usually lead to the termination of a relationship, or at the very least some arguments.
The etiquette that is general Western tradition could be that when two (or higher) buddies just like the exact exact exact same individual, it could either be determined that turns will be taken, allow other person determine, or nobody is able to have them – in order to prevent conflict.
In Asian tradition, but, it would appear that it is not a concern.
I’ve been in circumstances before where 3 or maybe more buddies have got all been wanting to show their stuff off, earnestly and freely contending against one another.