Hadrat Umar (RA) related that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) stated, “not just one of you need to satisfy a female alone unless she’s associated with a general (mahram)” (Bukhari/Muslim).
The Prophet (peace be among them” (Tirmidhi) upon him) also reportedly said, “Whenever a man is alone with a woman, Satan (Shaytan) is the third. Whenever people that are young getting to learn one another, being alone together is an urge toward wrongdoing.
At all times, Muslims should stick to the commands associated with the Qur’an (24:30-31) to “lower their look and guard their modesty. ” Islam understands that our company is peoples consequently they are directed at weakness that is human which means this guideline provides safeguards for the very very own benefit.
Friendship with Opposite Gender
Could it be incorrect for 2 folks of the sex that is opposite be extremely good friends in school and away from college? Dr. Muzammil Siddiqui responses ” Muslims should have elations that are good everybody, men in addition to females. In school, in the office, you should be kind and courteous to everyone in you neighborhood etc. But, it is really not permitted in Islam to just take a non-mahram individual or people regarding the contrary sex as a tremendously friend that is close.
Such relationship usually contributes to Haram. When you look at the Qur’an, Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala mentioned that good gents and ladies are the ones whom marry, don’t have relationships that are fornicating would not have “paramours” (“akhdan” see al-Nisa’ 4:25; al-Ma’idah 5:5). “Akhdan” are “sweethearts” or for the guy a “mistress” as well as a girl a “lover”. The Prophet – comfort be upon him – stated, whenever two strangers regarding the contrary sex are alone with one another, Satan becomes the 3rd one between them. (al-Tirmidhi, 1091). (1)